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GETTING TO KNOW PEOPLE
1. smile
2. look
3. letters
INTERPRETE BODY LANGUAGE
1. eyes
2. head
3. mouth
4. hands
5. posture
6. voice
MEETINGS
Four things to remember at your first meeting
1. Be punctual
2. Presentation
3. sensible reasoning
4. be calm and relaxed
Be punctual
1. think of unexpected
2. it’s important to be in a good mood
Presentation
Take the following into consideration
1. Face
2. Hair
3. Body
4. Perfume
5. Shoes
Good reasoning
Three types of meeting which does not require
conversation
1. meeting friend
2. Going to the cinema/theatre/concert/palying an instrument
3. Playing tennis/squash
Five types of meeting which require conversation
1. Lunch/Dinner
2. Pub
3. Going for a walk
4. Playing golf
5. Visinting a museum/exhibition
Be calm and relaxed
1. Take all the time you
need
2. Think positive
CONVERSATION
1. Be positive
2. Be a ggod listener
3. Avoid giving your life story
4. Sometimes silence can be very precious
5. Try to be amusing without exagerating
6. Show your sense of humor
7. Being too persuasive can be controproductive
HOW TO FACE THE MEETING
1. Greetings
2. Relax
3. Test the ground
4. Use your potential to attract him/her
5. End and say goodnight
ATTRACTION
Five expedients to attract HIM
1. Be careful and enthusiastic
2. Gain his trust
3. Be warm and inviting but keep your distance
4. Be carefree relaxed and happy to be there at that time
5. Leave him with the feeling of wanting something more from you
Six expedients to attract HER
1. Be careful and romantica
2. Surprise her and be available
3. Be relaxed and friendly
4. Show inibition and wisdom
5. Show yourself as being a little vulnerable
6 Leave her with the feeling of wanting something more from you
After the first meeting
Evaluate if you are really convinced about wanting to see him/her a second time
by analysing these five factors:
1. Mutual attraction
2. Shared interests
3. Style of life
4. Frineds
5. Distance
The seconnd meeting might occur as follows:
1. Make the telephone call
2. Send flowers
3. Send a letter
4. By chance
Let's prepare for a second meeting
1. What else do I want to know about him/her? (carrer, friends,
family, personal necessity)
2. What do I want to reveal about my real self?
3. What do I expect sexually?
THE SECOND MEETING
1. Greet the other person
2. It is important to be relaxed
3. It is time to carry out the third degree in an intelligent way
4. Say goodbye and end this time with grater awarness
AND THE RELATIONSHIP CONTINUES
Four factors to remember:
1. Find mutual interests
2. Let the relationship take its course
3. Decide on the first trip together
4. When to give our complete trust
Face problems
Six examples of problems to be faced
1. Be communicative
2. Be friends too
3. Be aware of boredom
4. Be careful of being attracted by other people
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